I sometimes think about other girls in the way I'm supposed to think of guys. Does this mean I'm gay?
Anne, 14, Kansas City, KS
Do you mean that you get crushes on other females? If so, that's not really unusual. Your sexuality is very fluid at this stage in your life. (Need I even say, it's obviously okay if you do end up being a lesbian.) You'll figure out your sexual orientation over time. Talking to other kids having similar thoughts and feelings might help. Go to www.youthresource.com, which has listserves and support groups, or go to www.glsen.org to find a gay-straight alliance in your area.
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