Anyone who has ever been broken up with-and that means pretty much anyone-knows how that sucks. Your friends just want to see you smiling again, and they might not realize how hard this breakup has slammed you. Do whatever gets you through this crummy time. Put his picture on a pillow and punch the feathers out of it. Lip-sync to "Oops!…I Did it Again." Splurge on a groovy rhinestone belt. Go to the movies with friends or pick up a new hobby. "The best healer is time," says Jane Greer, Ph.D., "But, if you're still feeling super bummed after six months, then you might want to speak to a parent, friend, or counselor to help you." We predict you'll have more boyfriends than Jennifer Lopez has skintight outfits!

— Stephanie Dolgoff